Greetings !!!
It was a day of fun & so was the entire week. The week stared with Shrads birthday. My lovely sister turned 25 that day. Just married & got the surprise party from her companion. Surprises are always special , one realizes the importance in someone's life.
The week had less work & stress free period in stored for me at the office. The countdown has already begun for the last working day at this organization. The nearer the day comes the worst it feels. Emotional attachment of people & place is making me feel lame. But we should not forget that the growth is of prime importance in our life ! Finally,The week ended with excellent movies at home, family gathering & dinner at a beautiful theme restaurant with family. Hence it was a happy happy week !
This week was special due to another purpose as well. The week has opened up certain changes for me in life. Certain permanent changes of life . After the new job hunt, it is now partner hunt. It actually brought a lot of anxiety with reference to what I want from life & what I want for the entire lifetime ! Lots of brainstorming , lots of introspection has happened during this week. Tried hard to find out the faults of self & tried to change them till a lot of extent. It is a very big decision of life, one needs to introspect & must get mentally ready before taking this decision. One needs to be crystal clear about what he/she wants from the partner & what he/she is ready to give in return.
Next Sunday is the day when I am going to meet the first one of my life. Lots of anxiety is there , lots of confusion is there ! I have no clue what I will say ! The only clarity that I have is that I will be true to her! I will be what I am ! I am going to share my priorities , my routine & my correct nature ! But the biggest confusion is that how to judge someone from the very first meeting ? The purity of heart or trueness can't be judged from FB profiles or pictures. It has to be understood from meeting ! I think , the counterpart must be under going the same mental situation ! God only knows.... He will only help in taking the right decision. This is the real beauty of an arrange marriage, only the god can help, no one else !
A ray of positive feeling & happiness is also coming in ! Waiting for the next sunday to come ! Waiting to see what happens next ! Little confused , little happy , little stressed & little futuristic are all my current feelings. At the end , I would like to close by quoting......
"Dilon Mein Tum Apni Betaabiyan Leke Chal Rahe Ho, Toh Zinda Ho Tum,Nazaro Mein Khwabo Ki Bijliyan Leke Chal Rahe Ho, Toh Zinda Ho Tum,Hawa Ke Jhokon Ke Jaise Aazad Rehna Seekho,Tum Ek Dariya Ke Jaise Lehron Mein Behna Seekho, Har Ek Lamhe Se Tum Milo Khole Apni Baahein,Har Ek Pal Ek Naya Samaa Dekhe ye nigahen, Jo Apni Aankhon Mein Hairaniya Leke Chal Rahe Ho, Toh Zinda Ho Tum, Dilo Mein Tum Apni Betaabiyan Leke Chal Rahe Ho, Toh Zinda Ho Tum"
(Courtesy Farhan Akhtar - Zindgi Na Milegi Dobara.)
Rgds,
Nirav Ajmera
Sunday, 24 February 2013
Sunday, 10 February 2013
O Dear President Heart - Please reject the mercy petition of our inside Afzal Guru & Ajmal Kasab
Its been long since I blogged last time. Weeks passed by, events took place. They passed like a fraction of a second. Completion of two huge marriage events in family.Successful end to the new job hunt & now a sudden silence after eventful ceremonies. Sometimes it feels that we should stop working & keep ourselves involved in family only. With family we feel so comfortable & so protected. Life feels complete but this feeling doesn't last longer, have to get back to work & reality. We have to get back to routine & ruthless life. Sad but true.
This week ended with successful end of a ruthless terrorist. After 12 years, the master mind was hanged till death. This move from the government is worth welcoming but it's very late. Is it not a big question to our democracy that someone has got the audacity to attack the safest place of the subcontinent. Fortunately they failed in just 14 minutes but the final verdict took 12 long years & that too after spending corers of iNR. Anyways it is said, that all is well if end is well. The mastermind went asleep forever in the lands of Tihad jail.
My today's blog is little like terrorism only. Its dedicated to our feelings & about the artificial fear which kills our feelings. We are really very timid animals. We really are afraid of so many things in life, of course I am one of the "we" group.In this fear we fail to innovate, change & stay happy & believe me this fear has no real physical existence, if we can break this , we can really be the most happiest persons on the earth. This phenomenon is actually realized by me by a very small incident. In our college days we were the group of 4. Me & 3 pretty ladies. We were quite enthusiastic & continuously taking part in various events. This time we took the assignment of preparing a small film for social awareness purpose. The theme sounded excellent but the collection of pics for the theme was damn difficult , we ventured around the entire city & clicked various pics, but we were little dissatisfied, the railway station was our last destination, we thought to stop our picture hunt for that Sunday. We were clicking some pics of the train, suddenly Karima asked us to get on the train & get down at the next station. We could not understand, actually we were stunned by her demand, because we were exactly not even knowing in which direction the train was going. But truly speaking at the bottom of our heart we all wanted to get on the train & enjoy an unexpected trip with the remaining 3 buddies. But Karima was the only one who had the audacity to initiate the proposal in front of us. With fear in mind we got in the train. I insisted several times on taking the tickets but the rest 3 ladies with me were fearless & were in mood to travel without tickets for almost 70 KMS. We were now on the train & in our own fun. We were loving one another's company. We kept on changing the bogies in the fear of being caught for traveling without ticket. We thought we will be able to escape from the TCs eyes. But we were wrong, the destiny had in stored something different for us. A TC caught us traveling & changing bogies many a times, so he caught hold of us & demanded the tickets. We confessed , lied & what not tried but we could not convince him. He took me alone to the next boggy as I was the only gentlemen in the group. Approx a team of 8 TCs were sitting & he took me & explained everything. Believe me the gang of 8 TCs humiliated me like hell by their words for 30 minutes & finally charged me 1200 INR for traveling without tickets. The irony of the situation was that the fearless ladies were safe. They did not even have to listen to a single word. Lucky they !!!! Anyways after paying 1200 Rs , I was much relaxed. I learnt a lesson that never to travel without ticket in the train, but I learnt even a bigger lesson that we should always do what we feel like doing. Though I had to hear so many things & lost almost 6 times more money than actual tickets but I could create a lifetime memory & felt satisfied that we did what we felt right. Though it was legally incorrect but this was not a crime , being happy is not a crime. We must understand to follow our heart. For this we should think from heart because mind can think only on a straight line & is too biased by our past experiences, education & etc. But heart can think beyond horizons & can bring innovations. Sometimes it is damn important to leave linearity & think in a haphazard manner. Think about it.....!!!
With this I would like to close my weekend, tomorrow is a new day & will try to be regular from next week onwards on running, writing & office affairs, after being disturbed from the routine because of some obvious reasons.
Rgds,
Nirav Ajmera
This week ended with successful end of a ruthless terrorist. After 12 years, the master mind was hanged till death. This move from the government is worth welcoming but it's very late. Is it not a big question to our democracy that someone has got the audacity to attack the safest place of the subcontinent. Fortunately they failed in just 14 minutes but the final verdict took 12 long years & that too after spending corers of iNR. Anyways it is said, that all is well if end is well. The mastermind went asleep forever in the lands of Tihad jail.
My today's blog is little like terrorism only. Its dedicated to our feelings & about the artificial fear which kills our feelings. We are really very timid animals. We really are afraid of so many things in life, of course I am one of the "we" group.In this fear we fail to innovate, change & stay happy & believe me this fear has no real physical existence, if we can break this , we can really be the most happiest persons on the earth. This phenomenon is actually realized by me by a very small incident. In our college days we were the group of 4. Me & 3 pretty ladies. We were quite enthusiastic & continuously taking part in various events. This time we took the assignment of preparing a small film for social awareness purpose. The theme sounded excellent but the collection of pics for the theme was damn difficult , we ventured around the entire city & clicked various pics, but we were little dissatisfied, the railway station was our last destination, we thought to stop our picture hunt for that Sunday. We were clicking some pics of the train, suddenly Karima asked us to get on the train & get down at the next station. We could not understand, actually we were stunned by her demand, because we were exactly not even knowing in which direction the train was going. But truly speaking at the bottom of our heart we all wanted to get on the train & enjoy an unexpected trip with the remaining 3 buddies. But Karima was the only one who had the audacity to initiate the proposal in front of us. With fear in mind we got in the train. I insisted several times on taking the tickets but the rest 3 ladies with me were fearless & were in mood to travel without tickets for almost 70 KMS. We were now on the train & in our own fun. We were loving one another's company. We kept on changing the bogies in the fear of being caught for traveling without ticket. We thought we will be able to escape from the TCs eyes. But we were wrong, the destiny had in stored something different for us. A TC caught us traveling & changing bogies many a times, so he caught hold of us & demanded the tickets. We confessed , lied & what not tried but we could not convince him. He took me alone to the next boggy as I was the only gentlemen in the group. Approx a team of 8 TCs were sitting & he took me & explained everything. Believe me the gang of 8 TCs humiliated me like hell by their words for 30 minutes & finally charged me 1200 INR for traveling without tickets. The irony of the situation was that the fearless ladies were safe. They did not even have to listen to a single word. Lucky they !!!! Anyways after paying 1200 Rs , I was much relaxed. I learnt a lesson that never to travel without ticket in the train, but I learnt even a bigger lesson that we should always do what we feel like doing. Though I had to hear so many things & lost almost 6 times more money than actual tickets but I could create a lifetime memory & felt satisfied that we did what we felt right. Though it was legally incorrect but this was not a crime , being happy is not a crime. We must understand to follow our heart. For this we should think from heart because mind can think only on a straight line & is too biased by our past experiences, education & etc. But heart can think beyond horizons & can bring innovations. Sometimes it is damn important to leave linearity & think in a haphazard manner. Think about it.....!!!
With this I would like to close my weekend, tomorrow is a new day & will try to be regular from next week onwards on running, writing & office affairs, after being disturbed from the routine because of some obvious reasons.
Rgds,
Nirav Ajmera
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