Knowing The Stranger!!!

Greetings !!!

It was a day of fun & so was the entire week. The week stared with Shrads birthday. My lovely sister turned 25 that day. Just married & got the surprise party from her companion. Surprises are always special , one realizes the importance in someone's life.

The week had less work & stress free period in stored for me at the office. The countdown has already begun for the last working day at this organization. The nearer the day comes the worst it feels. Emotional attachment of people & place is making me feel lame. But we should not forget that the growth is of prime importance in our life ! Finally,The week ended with excellent movies at home, family gathering & dinner at a beautiful theme restaurant with family. Hence it was a happy happy week !

This week was special due to another purpose as well. The week has opened up certain changes for me in life. Certain permanent changes of life . After the new job hunt, it is now partner hunt. It actually brought a lot of anxiety with reference to what I want from life & what I want for the entire lifetime ! Lots of brainstorming , lots of introspection has happened during this week. Tried hard to find out the faults of self & tried to change them till a lot of extent. It is a very big decision of life, one needs to introspect & must get mentally ready before taking this decision. One needs to be crystal clear about what he/she wants from the partner & what he/she is ready to give in return.

Next Sunday is the day when I am going to meet the first one of my life. Lots of anxiety is there , lots of confusion is there ! I have no clue what I will say ! The only clarity that I have is that I will be true to her! I will be what I am ! I am going to share my priorities , my routine & my correct nature ! But the biggest confusion is that how to judge someone from the very first meeting ? The purity of heart or trueness can't be judged from FB profiles or pictures. It has to be understood from meeting ! I think , the counterpart must be under going the same mental situation ! God only knows.... He will only help in taking the right decision. This is the real beauty of an arrange marriage, only the god can help, no one else ! 

A ray of positive feeling & happiness is also coming in ! Waiting for the next sunday to come ! Waiting to see what happens next ! Little confused , little happy , little stressed & little futuristic are all my current feelings. At the end , I would like to close by quoting......

"Dilon Mein Tum Apni Betaabiyan Leke Chal Rahe Ho, Toh Zinda Ho Tum,Nazaro Mein Khwabo Ki Bijliyan Leke Chal Rahe Ho, Toh Zinda Ho Tum,Hawa Ke Jhokon Ke Jaise Aazad Rehna Seekho,Tum Ek Dariya Ke Jaise Lehron Mein Behna Seekho, Har Ek Lamhe Se Tum Milo Khole Apni Baahein,Har Ek Pal Ek Naya Samaa Dekhe ye nigahen, Jo Apni Aankhon Mein Hairaniya Leke Chal Rahe Ho, Toh Zinda Ho Tum, Dilo Mein Tum Apni Betaabiyan Leke Chal Rahe Ho, Toh Zinda Ho Tum"

(Courtesy Farhan Akhtar - Zindgi Na Milegi Dobara.)


Rgds,
Nirav Ajmera